Michigan - Studi baru menemukan fakta, orang yang berbicara dengan jeda dan tidak terlalu cepat, adalah orang yang kata-katanya paling mungkin berhasil meyakinkan pendengarnya.
Jose Benki memiliki ketertarikan meneliti pidato dan dunia psikolinguistik. Ilmuwan dari University of Michigan ini mengatakan, orang yang kecepatan bicaranya sekitar 3,5 kata per detik, akan lebih berkemungkinan disetujui pendengarnya daripada orang yang berbicara lebih cepat atau lebih lambat.
Benki meneliti 1.380 hasil rekaman telepon yang dilakukan oleh 100 orang yang meminta orang lain berpartisipasi dalam sebuah survei. Hasil rekaman itu lalu dianalisis kelancaran dan kedalaman suaranya, dan korelasi kedua variabel itu terhadap kemampuan partisipan dalam meyakinkan orang lain.
Hasilnya, pria yang suaranya tinggi cenderung lebih rendah kemampuan persuasinya dibandingkan pria bersuara lebih dalam. Tapi kedalaman suara tidak menunjukkan pengaruh signifikan bagi perempuan.
Para peneliti juga memeriksa penggunaan jeda dalam berbicara. Mereka menemukan, orang yang bicara dengan menerapkan jeda-jeda pendek yang lebih sering, akan cenderung lebih mampu mempersuasi orang lain ketimbang orang yang bicaranya terlalu lancar.
“Penggunaan jeda yang dimaksud adalah sekitar 4-5 kali per menit,” ungkap Benki.
Pewawancara tidak membuat jeda sama sekali, adalah yang paling rendah tingkat persetujuannya. Namun orang yang bicara dengan terlalu banyak jeda, walaupun dianggap gagap, mereka justru memiliki tingkat keberhasilan lebih tinggi daripada orang yang bicaranya terlalu lancar
Rabu, 18 Mei 2011
Jumat, 13 Mei 2011
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Senin, 09 Mei 2011
Fundamental Things
Here are four fundamental things to do to manifest money using the law of attraction.
1. Think more thoughts in a day of abundance than of lack of money.
2. Be happy now, without the money.
3. Be truly grateful for everything you have now.
4. Give the best of yourself to others.
Four easy steps. You can do them if you want it enough.
1. Think more thoughts in a day of abundance than of lack of money.
2. Be happy now, without the money.
3. Be truly grateful for everything you have now.
4. Give the best of yourself to others.
Four easy steps. You can do them if you want it enough.
Focus Your Mind
Stress, worry, and anxiety simply come from projecting your thoughts into the future and imagining something bad. This is focusing on what you don't want! If you find that your mind is projecting into the future in a negative way, focus intensely on NOW. Keep bringing yourself back to the present.
Use all of your will, and focus your mind in this very moment, because in this moment of now there is utter peace.
Use all of your will, and focus your mind in this very moment, because in this moment of now there is utter peace.
Kamis, 28 April 2011
Memahami hati
dan pikiran seseorang, jangan dilihat pada apa yang sudah diperolehnya, melainkan pada apa yang diinginkannya.
Aku akan...
berjalan bersama mereka yang berjalan. Aku tidak akan berdiri diam menonton arak-arakan..
Selasa, 26 April 2011
True Gratitude
When you exist in the great state of gratitude, you become a person who only wants to give. You become so grateful that it takes over your life, and you can't find enough opportunities in a day to give. You give joy, you give love, you give money, you give appreciation, you give compliments, and you give kindness. You give the best of yourself in your job, in your relationships, and to strangers.
You will know when you have really found true gratitude, because you will become a giver. One who is truly grateful cannot be anything else
You will know when you have really found true gratitude, because you will become a giver. One who is truly grateful cannot be anything else
Minggu, 24 April 2011
Sebintik Baju Ibu ...?
One day my nephew (4 years old) in Pagar Alam said "Sebintik baju ibu" Apa maknanya? I don't know? Ada-ada aja! Kecil-kecil udah jadi penyair, he..he..
Selasa, 19 April 2011
There are two kinds of people:
Those who say, "I will believe it when I see it."
And those who say, "To see it, I know I must believe it."
And those who say, "To see it, I know I must believe it."
Senin, 18 April 2011
Sabtu, 16 April 2011
That's What Friend Are 4
For good time n bad time... I'll be on your side for ever more... (Sadao Watanabe, Dwiki Dharmawan on Metro TV INDONESIA, 23.25 WIB)
Ask, Believe, Receive
Just three simple steps to create what you want. However, very often the second step, believe, can be the most difficult one. And yet it is the greatest step you will ever take. When you master believing, you have mastered your life.
To master believing, all you have to do is tip the balance of your thoughts, words, and actions, from 'not believing' to believing. The ONLY thing that can ever get in the way of manifesting what you want, is having more thoughts of 'not believing', speaking more words of 'not believing', and taking more actions of 'not believing', than you are of believing. Base the majority of your thoughts, words, and actions in believing, and the law of attraction must obey you.
Believing contains no doubt. Believing does not waiver. Believing is absolute faith. Believing remains steadfast despite what is happening in the outside world.
Here is a story of believing that will speak to you and inspire you......... to believe.
To master believing, all you have to do is tip the balance of your thoughts, words, and actions, from 'not believing' to believing. The ONLY thing that can ever get in the way of manifesting what you want, is having more thoughts of 'not believing', speaking more words of 'not believing', and taking more actions of 'not believing', than you are of believing. Base the majority of your thoughts, words, and actions in believing, and the law of attraction must obey you.
Believing contains no doubt. Believing does not waiver. Believing is absolute faith. Believing remains steadfast despite what is happening in the outside world.
Here is a story of believing that will speak to you and inspire you......... to believe.
Get on to the frequency of good with your thoughts and words
If you are complaining about things in your life, you are on the complaining frequency, and you are not in a position to attract what you want.
Get on to the frequency of good with your thoughts and words. Firstly you will feel good, and secondly you will be on the frequency of receiving more good.
Get on to the frequency of good with your thoughts and words. Firstly you will feel good, and secondly you will be on the frequency of receiving more good.
You're allowed to be excited!
If there was a particular house you wanted, or a particular relationship or job you wanted, and you didn't get it, the Universe is telling you that it was not good enough and did not match your dream. It is also telling you that it has something BETTER and more worthy of you.
Something better is coming . . . you're allowed to be excited!
Something better is coming . . . you're allowed to be excited!
"How do I stop my negative thoughts?"
Is a question that I have been asked many times. If you have ever asked this question then you will feel such enormous relief in knowing the answer, because it is so simple. How do you stop negative thoughts? You plant good thoughts!
When you try to stop negative thoughts, you are focusing on what you don't want - negative thoughts - and you will attract an abundance of them. They can never disappear if you are focused on them. The "stop" part is irrelevant - the negative thoughts are your focus. It doesn't matter if you are trying to stop negative thoughts or control them or push them away, the result is the same. Your focus is on negative thoughts, and by the law of attraction you are inviting more of them to you.
The truth is always simple and it is always easy. To stop negative thoughts, just plant good thoughts! Deliberately plant good thoughts! You plant good thoughts by making it a daily practice to appreciate all the things in your day. Appreciate your health, your car, your home, your family, your job, your friends, your surroundings, your meals, your pets, and the magnificent beauty of the day. Compliment, praise, and give thanks to all things. Every time you say "Thank you" it is a good thought! As you plant more and more good thoughts, the negative thoughts will be wiped out. Why? Because your focus is on good thoughts, and what you focus on you attract.
So don't give any attention to negative thoughts. Don't worry about them. If any come, make light of them, shrug them off, and let them be your reminder to deliberately think more good thoughts now.
The more good thoughts you can plant in a day, the faster your life will be utterly transformed into all good. If you spend only one day speaking of good things and saying "Thank you" at every single opportunity, you will not believe your tomorrow. Deliberately thinking good thoughts is exactly like planting seeds. As you think good thoughts you are planting good seeds inside you, and the Universe will transform those seeds into a garden of paradise. How will the garden of paradise appear? As your life!
When you try to stop negative thoughts, you are focusing on what you don't want - negative thoughts - and you will attract an abundance of them. They can never disappear if you are focused on them. The "stop" part is irrelevant - the negative thoughts are your focus. It doesn't matter if you are trying to stop negative thoughts or control them or push them away, the result is the same. Your focus is on negative thoughts, and by the law of attraction you are inviting more of them to you.
The truth is always simple and it is always easy. To stop negative thoughts, just plant good thoughts! Deliberately plant good thoughts! You plant good thoughts by making it a daily practice to appreciate all the things in your day. Appreciate your health, your car, your home, your family, your job, your friends, your surroundings, your meals, your pets, and the magnificent beauty of the day. Compliment, praise, and give thanks to all things. Every time you say "Thank you" it is a good thought! As you plant more and more good thoughts, the negative thoughts will be wiped out. Why? Because your focus is on good thoughts, and what you focus on you attract.
So don't give any attention to negative thoughts. Don't worry about them. If any come, make light of them, shrug them off, and let them be your reminder to deliberately think more good thoughts now.
The more good thoughts you can plant in a day, the faster your life will be utterly transformed into all good. If you spend only one day speaking of good things and saying "Thank you" at every single opportunity, you will not believe your tomorrow. Deliberately thinking good thoughts is exactly like planting seeds. As you think good thoughts you are planting good seeds inside you, and the Universe will transform those seeds into a garden of paradise. How will the garden of paradise appear? As your life!
BELIEVE
The things that come most quickly into your life are the things that you BELIEVE in the most. You can only bring to you what you BELIEVE, so you must BELIEVE to receive what you want
Most People Can Manifest The Small Things Quickly
This is because they do not have any resistance around the small things, and because they don't think thoughts that contradict them. When it comes to the bigger things, however, people often emit thoughts of doubt or worry that contradict those bigger things. This is the only difference in terms of the time it takes for something to manifest.
Nothing is big or small for the Universe.
Nothing is big or small for the Universe.
Jumat, 15 April 2011
Uang!
sumber dari cinta yang tak tulus; mata air cahaya dan keberuntungan palsu; sumber air beracun; keputusasaan masa tua!
Uang adalah bagai alat musik dawai. Mereka yang tidak mengetahui bagaimana memainkannya dengan tepat hanya akan memperdengarkan alunan musik sumbang.
Uang itu laksana cinta; uang membunuh secara perlahan-lahan dan menyakitkan orang-orang yang menyembunyikannya dan uang akan memberi berkah bagi mereka yang membagikannya kepada sesama manusia
Uang adalah bagai alat musik dawai. Mereka yang tidak mengetahui bagaimana memainkannya dengan tepat hanya akan memperdengarkan alunan musik sumbang.
Uang itu laksana cinta; uang membunuh secara perlahan-lahan dan menyakitkan orang-orang yang menyembunyikannya dan uang akan memberi berkah bagi mereka yang membagikannya kepada sesama manusia
Kebencian...
aku pergunakan sebagai senjata untuk mempertahankan diri; jika aku termasuk manusia kuat, aku tidak akan pernah membutuhkan senjata semacam itu
Kita adalah..
pemikiran sunyi yang tersembunyi di sudut-sudut penderitaan. Kini kita adalah suara keras yang mampu menggetarkan cakrawala
Alam menyambut kita...
Dengan tangan-tangan yang hangat, dan mengajak kita menikmati keindahannya, tetapi kita takut dengan kesunyiannya dan kita bergegas pergi ke kota-kota yang padat, tempat manusia berkumpul laksana domba yang berlari menghindar dari terkaman srigala-srigala buas!
Air Mata
Manusia yang dibakar & dibersihkan dengan air matanya sendiri akan tetap suci untuk selama lamanya. Airmata yang engkau tumpahkan lebih suci daripada gelak tawa manusia yang mencari & melupakan dan lebih manis daripada cemooh dari orang-orang yang suka mencela. Airmata membersihkan hati dari penyakit untuk membenci dan mengajari manusia untuk berbagi penderitaan dengan mereka yang patah hati.
Kamis, 14 April 2011
Selasa, 12 April 2011
Rabu, 16 Maret 2011
Selasa, 15 Maret 2011
Virus
Aku nggak mau seperti duri...yang melukaimu
Aku nggak mau seperti api...membakar hatimu
Aku ingin jujur dan apa adanya
Aku nggak mau seperti api...membakar hatimu
Aku ingin jujur dan apa adanya
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